It's Perfectly Normal

It's Perfectly Normal

A Book About Changing Bodies, Growing Up, Sex and Sexual Health

eBook - 2009
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Introduces human sexuality, describes the changes brought about by puberty, and discusses sexual abuse, sexually transmitted diseases, AIDS, and pregnancy.
Publisher: Somerville, Mass. : Candlewick Press, c2009
Edition: 3rd ed
ISBN: 9780763658649
Characteristics: 1 online resource : col. ill
Additional Contributors: Emberley, Michael
Alternative Title: It is perfectly normal
Call Number: eBook


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May 04, 2018

Is a good book an helps.

Dec 07, 2017

I am a teacher...
Before checking this book out, be sure to read the one, two, and three star reviews on Amazon. It is so inappropriate for a 10, 11, 12, and even 13 year olds, and I cannot *believe* it is recommended for 10 and up. Welcome to Common Core. Common Core sexualizes and desensitizes children, and this book is aligned with the current curriculum. What a disappointment. Parents beware.

morrisonist Sep 16, 2015

it is wrong for children to know about sex!

May 20, 2015

Its pretty good.

Dec 09, 2014

A frank and accessible resource written for children of about age 10 and up. Presumes a gender and sexual binary, so may not be as useful for children who are intersex or genderfluid.

Cynthia_N Sep 29, 2014

This book is often banned for the illustrations and the sexual content but I think it is a great resource to have available. I can see the concern that a younger child might come across it but it is written at a level that a child younger than 10 would struggle with comprehension and the nude illustrations were not so realistic that a child would be scarred upon viewing them. My library keeps it in the YA section which I think is a good choice.

ecrl Oct 10, 2012

I agree with modestgoddess: parents—not librarians—have an obligation to educate their own children when it comes to sex and other sensitive topics. As pointed out by other posters, this book should be in the Adult area of libraries, where parents can decide if their children should read it.

DebAK Oct 09, 2012

For reasons already listed by other reviewers, this book should be handled by an adult. Only adults should be allowed to decide when their children can read it.

Sep 13, 2012

It's been awhile since I looked at this book, but it was recommended in an adult book (Hickling's "The New Speaking of Sex") about approaches to teaching children about sex in a very level, even-handed, factual and non-judgemental way. I remember being very impressed by it but, similar to another poster, I will wait till our daughter is a bit older to get this one for her. THAT BEING SAID, I *did* buy her the younger version of this, called "It's Not The Stork!" Our daugher is six and greatly enjoyed "It's Not The Stork!" It lays things out simply and in an easy-to-understand way, so for anyone looking for a way to discuss sex with their children very matter-of-factly, this line of books is excellent. As parents, we have a duty to our children NOT to raise them thinking that sex is dirty, bad, taboo, or something they can never ask us about. We need to learn NOT to be uncomfortable about it FOR THEM, so they can grow up with a healthy attitude towards this important part of who they are. If a book like this makes you queasy, perhaps you need to examine your own attitudes/perceptions/sexuality, to be as healthy as you can be about it, too. Totally agree with chirschi, below, on this: "A good resource to empower kids with straight facts in a plain and frank manner and avoid misinformation from peers and media."

EuSei Aug 27, 2012

This book has a V-E-R-Y detailed, graphic, colorful picture of a “vulva,” and explains that “when the cl*toris is touched and rubbed, a female body feels good both outside and inside. It feels sexy.” Sexy?! I bet your kid would like to try that one! It goes on to explain sexual desire and that “[girls and boys] have crushes on people of the same sex, as well as on people of the opposite sex”. Chapter 3 has a very graphic picture of a girl bending forward and analyzing her parts through a hand mirror. Chapter 4, “Making Love, Sexual Intercourse,” comes complete with a color picture of a naked couple performing sex. It teaches your mature 10 year-old that “sexual intercourse happens when a female and a male feel very sexy…” The “sexy” thing again… The next chapter, “Straight and Gay, Heterosexuality and Homosexuality,” conveys that homosexuality is so normal that it was practiced not only by Sapho but also by those manly men, the Spartan soldiers. Oh, the great things your kid will learn in this book… People who disapprove of homosexuality or bisexuality are portrayed as ignorant bigot, homophobe, and know “little or nothing about homosexuals, [their] views are often based on fears or misinformation, not on facts [and] hate homosexuals only because they are homosexuals.” Chapter 16, “Perfectly Normal, Masturbation,” your kid will be taught the joys of the procedure: it is fun and natural, and “people of all ages masturbate–babies, kids, teenagers, grown-ups, and the elderly.” The concept would not be wholly conveyed to your child without a graphic description of “orgasm.” The most misleading and dangerous information conveyed by this troubling book is that condoms make it safer to have sex with a partner with HIV. While the book mentions abortion as an option, this procedure surprisingly is not depicted. I almost want to suggest that the artist add several pictures of a D&X (dilate and extract) and partial-birth abortion.

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Nov 15, 2016

indypunx thinks this title is suitable for 11 years and over

Nov 29, 2015

Aci thinks this title is suitable for 10 years and over

ecrl Oct 10, 2012

ecrl thinks this title is suitable for 18 years and over

DebAK Oct 09, 2012

DebAK thinks this title is suitable for 18 years and over

chirschi Aug 10, 2012

chirschi thinks this title is suitable for 11 years and over

chirschi Aug 10, 2012

chirschi thinks this title is suitable for 11 years and over

EuSei Jun 01, 2012

EuSei thinks this title is suitable for 18 years and over


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EuSei Sep 24, 2012

“[girls and boys] have crushes on people of the same sex, as well as on people of the opposite sex,”

EuSei Jun 02, 2012

A girl often rubs her clit*ris; a boy often rubs his p*nis.

EuSei Jun 01, 2012

“In all from front to back, there are three openings between a female’s legs: the opening to her urethra, the opening for her vagina, and her anus. If a girl or woman is curious about what these openings look like, she can hold a mirror between her legs and take a look”


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EuSei Jun 01, 2012

Sexual Content: VERY coarse, graphic depictions of couples having sex and young kids masturbating.


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